Note: This post will contain some post-surgery pictures.
Squeamish? None are seriously graphic but consider your own temperament before reading.
I've known Tom for eleven years now and we've lived together for the last five (in fact, it's almost six years since he moved in on 02-25-20). Of course he was already hard of hearing when we first met due to Ménière’s Disease. But it's grown steadily worse through the years and now he can barely hear me unless I almost yell.
He wore a hearing aid for a while until he crushed it while working at an Amazon warehouse. He said it didn't help him much anyway. So he's been without any assistance for many years. He tries to keep his better ear (right) facing me and he keeps closed captioning on the TV.
Many times I've suggested a cochlear implant but he felt due to the long-term nerve damage it wouldn't help. But this year, perhaps due to desperation, he made an appointment with an audiologist to see if it might help.
Tom chose Southwest Ohio ENT Specialists.
On 07-09 a comprehensive hearing evaluation was done. Here's one of the results:
Once insurance approved the operation, Tom returned for a "pre-op" appointment on 10-29-25. In the interim he's been to the hospital three times, for an MRI (08-09), an EKG and blood work.
Surgery Day - 11-06-25
We were asked to be at Kettering Medical Center at 11 am so we left just after 10 am in anticipation of heavy traffic. There was very little and we arrived about 10:30 am and registered. We were sent to the Surgical Waiting Room and given this "Surgery Tracking Card". Texts were sent to my phone throughout the afternoon as things progressed.
Also there were monitors in the waiting room where I was able to watch the progress and see the color of Tom's procedure change as each step was completed.
This photo was taken while Tom was in the operating room (his tracking number [4434417] is green - step 5).
Tom had been taken to pre-op about 11:30 am and I was able to tag along.
We first arrived in pre-op for this picture.
Tom's undressed and put on a surgical gown. Why he had to completely undress for a procedure on his
head, I don't know. Maybe it's a matter of patient comfort.
[Tom says it's due to the sterile operating room environment]
Tom's ready for the OR as a nurse goes over last minute instructions.
There's even time for a little TV while he waits for them to wheel him into the OR. We don't know what the movie was - or even what the channel was - but it involved a circus and actor Danny Kaye.
Now for the long wait. I watched the colors change on the monitor and finally the doctor came out and talked with me. It was just after 3 pm. My guess is that the surgery started about 1:30 pm and lasted an hour and a half.
When I was taken back to recovery to see Tom he was still in the surgical gown but managed to get dressed without problems. He said he was "very groggy". Here's how he looked:
The bandage stays on until tomorrow
Dr. William J.D. Turner said to cut through the knot and the whole bandage could then be lifted away from Tom's head.
We picked up a pain med and an antibiotic at
CVS when we got home and ate at
Gold Star. Tom hadn't had any food since 9:30 pm the day before ... and only a sip of water to take his pills.
Removing the Bandage - 11-07-25
Tom says he felt like he was wearing a hat today. Late afternoon he removed the bandage. It came off fairly easily and the blood on the bandages was minimal.
Here' a "before" picture (taken 11-02-25) of the area where the surgery was to take place:
And here's the area after surgery (taken today):
How does it look the next day (11-08)? Here's a look behind the ear:
Cochlear Initial Stim: 11-26-25
I assume that to mean "stimulation" because that's exactly what happened at Tom's 9:30 am appointment. By 11 am I got a text from Tom: "I can hear voice but its tinny, almost like underwater. It will get better with use and training".
When Tom got home - about 1 pm - I was amazed that we could carry on a conversation. That's not something we've been able to do for a long time, and certainly not with me on his left side nor without me raising my voice.
Later he mentioned how odd it was to hear my typing on my phone's screen ... from across the room. Or later when I heated coffee in the microwave in the kitchen. ""I could hear the microwave beeping," Tom said. These may be common sounds, but not for Tom.
Here is how the wound looked last night: